To all men of the world, DO NOT USE TAWKIFY! is a bullshit dating site where men must give their information on income, education, etc. and then send photo of themselves to the women, then the women get to SCREEN the men out without giving any information about themselves (nor even a photo!).

Women in the US have enough power and already are more educated and employed than men.  Forget these bitches, whores, and careerists.

Save your money and go find foreign women in Eastern Europe, Latin America and Asia!

Let these harpies live and die alone with their minimum four cats!

Men don't have any feelings after all! Bow down to her royal, entitled ass! It's your duty as a MANNNNNNNNN!


Wow, I’m not alone. Other guys think American women suck, too.

I found these sites on the internet.
American women are in trouble.—why-marriage-has-become-a-raw-deal-for-men.html

The Tom Leykis Show



And these sites are just the tip of the iceberg.  Just google “American women suck” and there are over 28,000,000 results.

Thank god, North America holds barely 5% of the world’s population.

Time is a woman’s worst enemy. Time is like kyptronite to a woman.


I found this excerpt online and couldn’t agree with it more.  It’s hilarious yet so sad.

All correct my friend. Time and aging are like kyrptonite to women, they lose all powers and value as time goes on.

What is the point of marrying a woman in the hopes of having a family when she can no longer have children? Why engage in a traditional relationship with non-traditional woman?

Western women have NOTHING to offer men these days.

Companionship = Catering to her ever demands
Commitment = Enslavement
Family = Paternity fraud
Love = She will love you but not be ‘in’ love with you
Marriage = Alimony
Sex = Only for other men
Looks = A declining asset

Modern women make terrible long-term partners and wives, but damn they make great sex objects!

When I think about the modern woman in the West, I ask the question:what is she good at that men value?

Being caring and nurturing?  No

Being feminine and attractive to men?  Not really

Being good wives and mothers? Hell NO!

The reality I find is that the modern woman is only good for one thing:


Really, what else is she good for?  Sure, she makes money, but men work and have careers partially in order to attract women.  So a career woman is redundant to a successful, attractive man.
What does a successful, attractive man look for in a woman?









and lastly…


Of course, all men look at woman at think of sex, anyway…  but I digress.

The fact to the matter is that women who are career-driven do not make good partners.  In order to move up in the corporate ladder in America, one must act and be more masculine.  Men are meant to be masculine, women are not.  Women lose their femininity when they seek male power through a career, but they lose what makes them attractive to men for anything LONG-TERM and MEANINGFUL.
Don’t believe me?  The marriage rate is at its lowest in the US.  The birth rate is down.  And there’s  an unspoken marriage strike in the US.

Men nowadays see women as competitors in education and the workplace, not caring, nurturing, loving partners.

Ladies, if you expect to “have it all” as the feminists would have you believe, there’s a high probability you’ll end up a spinster with cats or divorced from a husband who you don’t respect.

Time is on man’s side, not on woman’s.  Learn to be feminine again and put your man and family on top of your list of priorities.

After all, as American men, we have literally hundreds of millions of young, beautiful, feminine, foreign women who would at least give us a chance with them.

I know…  from experience.  Ladies, you guys don’t have a monopoly on pussy in this world.

Gotta love Asian women, Russian women, Latin women…

Shit Stinks in America: A Society in Decline

I just finished Freedom Twenty-five‘s book Freedom Twenty-Five: A 21st-Century Man’s Guide To Life, and I had one of those aha! moments:

American society is seriously fucked up

Freedom Twenty-five’s excellent book ended up the topic of purpose.  My generation is really lost.  Unlike the Boomer Generation who venerated being rebellious, self-indulgent and free-lovin’, Generation Y doesn’t have purpose or direction, much less motivation.  I know so many men who have no effin’ clue what they want in life.  So many men who are dropping out of college, staying at home with their basements just playing video games, or just smoking weed and fuckin’ ho’s (not such a bad reality actually)  And with the women? I know plenty who drank the GRRLL POWER kool-aid feminism that many of them are just pursuing careers like bitches in heat seeking some lovin’.  Our women are uber ambitious, sleeping with whoever and as many men as their vaginas demand because they think they can be like men (rather stinky shit, right), proclaim to every goddamn worthless man out there that “I’m strong and independent, bitches!”

Oh what happened to softness, femininity, nurture, and love?

Anyways, here are my thoughts as to why shit stinks in America in 2011:

  1. Obesity and Fat Acceptance – Goddamn fat whales and walruses populate the streets and supermarkets of this country.  Everywhere you go in America, you’re more or less guaranteed to find someone you may accidentally mistaken for Jabba the Hut or a guest from The Jerry Springer Show.  I have to admit that I am slightly obese and have been dealing with my weight for a long time.  I have lost weight and expect to be physically fit within three months.  But if I had grown up in Asia or Europe, I am confident that I wouldn’t have grown up nearly as fat.  Why are Americans fat?  Our culture is okay with overeating and eating pure crap!  When foreigners think of what is quintessential American food, they think of…  McDonlald’s and KFC.  Shit, and how about Japanese food?  Sushi.  French food?  Escargot and baguettes.  Chinese food?  Rice and noodles.  Damn, is it any wonder we’re such a fat people?  I am not proud to be fat unlike these fatties.  And so here’s the other stinky shit: why are Americans advocating for fat acceptance?  Fat people must work to lose their fat and become healthy, vibrant individuals capable of touching their own damn toes.  Fat is not acceptable.  It is downright dangerous for one’s health and a cost to the country in health, social, infrastructure, resources…  the list goes on.  Think about this reality.  If 70+% of a country’s people are overweight or obese, where will its police officers, astronauts, soldiers, firefighters, and other important professions come from?  Any society with the amount of glutton and morbidity is fucked up.  Need I say more?
  2. The Breakdown of the Family and Rise of Promiscuity – It’s official, less than 50% of Americans are married.  Also, 40% of all babies are born out-of-wedlock now.  Our culture is as self-centered and materialistic as it gets.  The devolution from strong, patriarchal families to disconnected, lost single-parent families in America is almost complete.  Single mothers are everywhere and their poor children are far more likely to become pussy-fied or delinquent men or promiscuous, slutty women.  Their children are more likely to become drug addicts, alcoholics, criminals, prostitutes, etc.  When I was younger, I never understood why the family unit was so important.  I always thought that families were just composed of separate individuals with different agendas.  Well, after traveling a bit, I realized that family is the foundational bedrock of any civilization, particularly large, sophisticated, durable ones like the West, Orthodox Russia or China.  Essentially, whole societies could continue for long epochs of time because they emphasized men and women marrying young and producing children, which begot the next generation.  Think of every single major civilization and culture in this world.  Think of the West, Russia, China, India, Islamic caliphates, Ancient Rome, Persia, etc.  Each and every single one was built by strong men in patriarchal systems.  Systems that let men be men and women be women, and ones that made sure children were born and raised by two parents.  Now, the American family is quickly disintegrating and the future seems uncertain.  Ghettos are expanding in many American cities as single mothers raise delinquent children.  The black community in the States has more or less reached large-scale ghettos and Hispanics are closing close behind.  It’ll only be a matter of time until mainstream America fosters large ghettos.
  3. A Culture of Self-Centeredness, Narcissism and Apathy – I’m not sure if I can find scientific studies or statistics for this claim, but I sure damn well know that my generation is as self-centered, narcissistic, and apathetic, particularly the women.  We live in a “ME, ME, ME” culture where individuals have only self-invested interests, disregarding most others.  We have one-night stands with each other, treating each other like disposable sex objects.  We buy the latest gadgets and fashion, while we load on thousands of dollars of credit card debt and college tuition.  And we don’t give a rat’s ass of politics.  Our culture looks down on intelligent, informed people in many circles, and the girls certainly don’t feel turned on by geeks and nerds in this country.  No society can survive if its members just care about themselves.  Oh wait, I do have an article on the women.
  4. American women are an international disgrace – What can I say?  American girls suck, usually  Why?  They’re career-driven, often fat or obese, butch, masculine in personality, spoiled, slutty, self-centered, slovenly, arrogant, can’t cook or hate cooking, think men are scum, lacking in femininity, charmless, cold, indifferent, frigid, and feminists when it benefits them.  Don’t believe me?  There are whole books written on the poor state of American women.  Hell, even other countries don’t like America women. Now someone will tell me that American men suck because they’re fat, lazy, and commitment-phobic.  However, when American men travel abroad to Latin America, Asia and many other countries, many, many women love us.  Abroad, we have a good reputation for being humane, family oriented, faithful, handsome men.  It also helps that the US is still the richest, most powerful country in the world.  In Taiwan, I get more attention when girls realize I’m American, and even a girl bought me a drink before.  There are also thousands of websites and agencies that connect American men with foreign women.  Look it up on google!  The simple fact is that American men are highly prized in most of the world because we have a reputation of generally treating women very well, having enlightened attitudes about gender relations, and being more faithful and stable than many non-American men. 

America today!

These are just a few aspects about America that stink.  Let me know if you have any others.  I’d like to hear your opinion.

Career Woman Tells Me Absurd Things

The other day I was talking with a woman about gender roles, and she mentioned how important having a career was to her.  This conversation brought up a couple interesting points:

1. Despite women gaining all the same opportunities to education, work, voting, and legal rights, they still preferred men who made more money and fulfilled traditional roles of protector and provider.

Of course, in the end, women are still women and so women are hypergamous. Women just decided to take control of their lives and set the bar even higher for men when it came to dating and sex.  Lovely.

2. The “liberated” woman barely acknowledged the benefits and advantages (or even denied them) that women still enjoyed that men could not, such as exemption from military conscription, having the choices in life to 1) work and be single, 2) be married and work part-time, or 3) be married and not work, and generally having an easier time when it came to seeking love and sex. 

Women could care less about your disadvantages as a man, and their advantages don’t amount to much in their pretty, capricious heads.  And yeah, military conscription?  Too bad, a woman’s life is more valuable and you SHOULD risk your life to defend my lifestyle of being a career-driven, masculine women!  And she thinks of this as GRRRRLLL POWER!  Pussies.

3. Why Western women still thought that they were “oppressed” and that our society generally treated men like scum and expendable?  Yet despite such conceptions, why so  many women in other countries thought so positively of American men and are very open-minded to dating them (moreover, if American men are so bad, why don’t American women go abroad and find “better” men?)

Feminists have been brainwashing our society for decades.  At this point, women are more or less equal to men and more.  It’s just brainwashing.  In reality, American men are usually nice and do believe in an equal partnership with a woman.  However, feminists have turned feminism from a movement about equality to one about female supremacy and hatred of men (including good, decent men).  And of course foreign women tend to like American men.  Remember, women are hypergamous?  The US is still the top superpower economically, culturally, militarily and politically.  Thus, women in many foreign countries think American men are high status.  Not to mention, remember the feminist brainwashing?  Forty years of feminist indoctrination has turned most American men into understanding, kind men who treat women with admiration and respect (until the day men take the red pill).  So high status + treating women as equals+ being kind and understanding towards women = attractive to foreign women.

My friend was speechless by the time we finished.  She couldn’t argue back.  Win.

The Red Pill Paradigm and a Toast to My New Life.

Welcome to my first post on my first blog.  If you’re reading this, you probably could care less about me and what I have to say.  Well, that’s fine with me.  Go screw off then.

If you’re still here, here’s what I am declaring:

I have taken the red pill and have decided that following the traditional paradigm on life no longer works.

From the first day we went to school, the men of my generation (Generation Y or the Millennials) have been told that if we studied hard in school, passed those AP tests, scored high points on the SAT’s, and then got into a top university, we would be handsomely rewarded with an awesome career in a corporate office that will pay us well.  Let’s call this corporate slavery

And on the flip-side of the same coin we also have been told that if we acted nice, courteous, chivalrous and respected women, we would get the girl and live happily ever after.  And for a large portion of our lives, most of us pedastalized women and thought they were delicate angels who could do no evil.  Let’s call this the nice guy syndrome.

Boy did we eat this shit up, didn’t we?  Nothing like the smell of deception and bullshit.

Reality looked far different though.  We thought we would be getting high-flying jobs out of college in companies and government-related positions.  After all, our parents, society, high school counselors, pastors, and even television told us the road to riches lay in studying our asses off in school.  Yet, in these dire economic times our diplomas have been reduced into merely pretty paper on our walls while most of us either stay at home unemployed or working at jobs that don’t even require our pretty paper.  And the girls?  They (Generation Y American women) are possibly the most self-absorbed, self-entitled, spoiled group of womankind on the planet.  We learned early on that being a nice guy did not get you anywhere with women.  They put you into the dreaded “friend zone”: a contemptuously miserable purgatory where the women we yearned for saw us as lowly neutered nothings.  In other words, being a nice guy got you nowhere with women.  Thus, the nice guy syndrome.  Boy did society lie to us big time.  So after studying our asses off all those years hours upon hours after school in high school , stressing over often college-level (AP classes anyone) chemistry and calculus tests, and being most courteous, respectable gentlemen we can be, most of us men have come out empty-handed and bewildered… if not betrayed by society.

Thus, the Red Pill Paradigm.  I have taken the red pill.  I have accepted that being a worker slave in the corporate world may no longer be secure or desirable.  I no longer have to pursue what society tells me is “right.”  And with the nice guy syndrome?  I can choose to either learn game and learn to really enjoy women by treating ‘em like crap and with disrespect, or I can solely put my attention on women who aren’t my counterparts: feminine, appreciative, respectable foreign women (there are literally hundreds of foreign countries out there!)

We now live in a society that favors women more and more.  Women want to take our jobs and do our work.  I’d say let them.

And I say as men to ditch marriage altogether, serious relationships with most women, and parental responsibility whatsoever.

Here is a toast to accepting the red pill paradigm. I have taken the red pill.  Have you?

“Rising from the ashes.  Seeking for the truth.  Reveling in the light.  I am boheme chinois.”